Not my circus, not my monkeys (except when it is)


The Gut Check:
Your pulse on intuition, strategy, and decisive leadership.

Hi Reader,

I have a mantra I return to every time I'm in a tough situation.

Circle of Influence. Circle of Control.

A mentor taught it to me years ago, and I've passed it along to probably every mentee and direct report I've ever had: care only about what you can influence and control. The rest isn't worth your time.

I even picked up a Polish idiom along the way that's become my companion mantra:

Nie mój cyrk, nie moje małpy.
Not my circus, not my monkeys.

But here's what I've learned after years of working with leaders.

Sometimes you care about the monkeys.

And when you do — when something is genuinely important to you but feels out of reach — the answer isn't to stop caring. It's to get clear on where your attention actually creates impact.

If you want to go deeper on the Control/Influence framework, I wrote about it here.

The question Q2 is asking you right now

Most leaders I talk to are walking into the next quarter with the targets, the team, and more data than they know what to do with.

What they're missing is a clear answer to the question that actually drives results:

Where does my attention create the greatest impact right now?

That's not a strategic planning question. It's a clarity question. And it's one most leaders never carve out time to answer until the quarter is already halfway gone.

Let's answer it together on April 1st

Start With Clarity: Your Q2 Intuition Strategy® Session

In 90 minutes, you'll map your priorities, surface what your instincts already know, and leave with 2–3 concrete focus areas for Q2 — the kind that make decisions easier and execution faster.

Start with Clarity: Your Q2 Intuition Strategy® Session

📅 Wednesday, April 1, 2026 ⏰ 12–1:30 PM EDT
💻 Live on Zoom 🎟 Free | 25 seats

This is a limited-seat working session. Come ready to reflect, write, and engage.

Wishing you a March of momentum,

You're receiving this email because I believe this content is relevant to your interests. If you'd prefer not to receive emails like this, you can update your preferences or opt out here.

Did you get this from a friend? Sign up for The Gut Check — your pulse on intuition, strategy, and decisive leadership.

The Intuition Strategist

600 1st Ave, Ste 330 PMB 92768, Seattle, WA 98104-2246
Unsubscribe · Preferences

The Intuition Strategist

I help leaders trust their gut to make decisions and get results. I share practical tips, helpful frameworks, and actionable strategies to help you lead with confidence, especially when there’s no playbook.

Read more from The Intuition Strategist

Hi Reader, There’s nothing quite like that ready-to-launch feeling when a project comes together after working on it for months. And so, I’m thrilled to share that The Intuition Strategist Podcast is returning for season 2 on September 1st! In season 1 of the podcast, I shared the roots of Intuition Strategy®, what it means to lead in a VUCA (volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous) world, and a primer on the tools that make your intuition actionable. In season 2, you’re not just hearing...

Hi Reader, Many leaders tell me they want to use their intuition to make decisions but they’re nervous that they won’t use it on the right ones. They’re afraid that they’ll mess up important choices or will regret what they did because their intuition was “wrong”. Here’s what I know: not all decisions call for only using your intuition. The leadership skill is discerning which decisions need your intuition to make fast, confident calls, and which require more deliberation and time. The...

Hi Reader, Many decision makers I work with have admitted that they question if others in their organization will trust them if they can’t show their work with analytical data. They know their intuition is real, it’s served them before, but they’re not sure how to communicate decisions made using it. Here’s the science-backed truth: Your intuition is informed and trained by your past experience and expertise — every project completed, meeting held, course taken, conversation had. Intuition is...